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I Knew Going In There Would Be Trouble

I Knew Going In There Would Be Trouble

When I realized on date two that this thing between me and my man might actually become something real and great I began to have flashes of the future when our human foibles would cause friction. I knew to expect it because it’s just what happens. There is no escape....
Mosquito Feelings and Gravity Feelings

Mosquito Feelings and Gravity Feelings

Obviously, there is a spectrum of feelings, their intensity, their origin, and ways to handle them. For this post, I’m going with a binary for the sake of argument. One type of feeling is like a visiting mosquito that can be smashed and the other is like the pull of...
Giving Without Resentment

Giving Without Resentment

My partner and I don’t live together (yet), but I do spend a lot of time at his place. In fact, I slept over six nights in a row last week. Many of those nights he wasn’t there or he was awake in the living room while I slept in the bedroom. You see, he just...
Sobriety Opened The World To Me

Sobriety Opened The World To Me

When I got sober, my whole world opened up, but it happened over time. After the initial period of adjustment (a whole other story as you well know), I gradually came to realize how much more LIFE was available to me. This was my biggest motivation in the first...